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Stephen “tWitch” Boss and Allison Holker Boss at the Critics Choice Association 5th Annual Celebration of Black Cinema & Television

It’s been more than two months sinceStephen “tWitch” Bossdied at age 40, and his wifeAllison Holkeris “doing as well as expected,” a source tells PEOPLE.

“Her first priority is the kids, and she is being the best mom she can be,” the source said. “The support from friends has been invaluable.”

(L-R) Stephen ‘tWitch’ Boss and Allison Holker with kids.Gregg DeGuire/FilmMagic

Stephen Boss and Allison Holker

The update comes a day after theSo You Think You Can Dancealum thanked fans for “all the love and support” they’ve shared since Boss' Death in December.

“He was someone that was just beautiful, and he lived his life from love,” Holker added. “And he made you feel a certain way.”

“It’s going to feel a little bit different, but we know that that’s our purpose, and we’ll still do that to this day,” she said. “And I hope that we can remember the feeling he gave us, and that we can still move from there. We can still move and choose love. And we can choose grace. We can still choose kindness.”

“I will always be there for you guys,” Holker concluded. “And I appreciate you being there for us at this moment. It goes a really far way for us. So thank you.”

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Allison Holker and Stephen Boss

“To my husband, best friend, babe, Chee-chalker, Superman and father of my children I LOVE YOU FOREVER and ALWAYS,“she captioned the video. “We will forever remember you as the true beacon of light that you were and we will continue to cast your light and love throughout the world.”

“Thank you for our incredible memories and our beautiful life shared together,” she concluded.

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In 2014, Boss joinedThe Ellen DeGeneres Showas a guest DJ. He eventually became a permanent fixture on the series and was elevated to co-executive producer status in 2020.

“Everyone is in pain and trying to make sense of it, and we’ll never make sense of it,” DeGeneres, 65, saidin a December clip. “The holidays are hard, I think, anyway, but to honor tWitch I think the best thing that we can do is to laugh, hug each other, play games and dance and sing. That’s the way we honor him, is we do the things that he loved to do, which is dancing.”

source: people.com