Becca KufrinandGarrett Yrigoyenare doing just fine.

Tuesday’s episode ofBachelor in Paradisetook fans insideChris Randone and Krystal Nielson’s nuptialsearlier this summer, reuniting several stars from the franchise. But one familiar face was missing: Kufrin’s fiancé, Yrigoyen.

His absence led some fans to wonder if the couple had split, and after the former Bachelorette was flooded with messages asking why she attended solo, she posted a series of videos on her Instagram Story explaining that Yrigoyen had a surprise birthday party that he couldn’t miss.

Kufrin, 29, took a screenshot of the direct message and posted it on her Story.

“Don’t be such a Sharon, Sharon,” she responded to the user, referring to the woman’s Instagram handle.

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Becca Kufrin

“It’s okay to do your own thing in a relationship sometimes,” she added. “Sorry, guys. You know we can’t do everything together, as much as I want to.”

Becca Kufrin, Garrett, Yrigoyen

Kufrin and Yrigoyen, 30,got engagedon her season ofThe Bachelorettelast year. They have sincemoved in togetherin an apartment near San Diego, California.

“It’s been a change! Because I’ve never lived anywhere other than Minnesota and I’ve never lived with a partner before,” Kufrin told PEOPLE in May. “I was very independent and used to living on my own, so it’s been different to adapt to someone else’s lifestyle.”

Although it’s been a transition for the lovebirds, it’s been a positive experience overall.

“He’s so adventurous and really pushing me outside of my comfort zone to try new things, so it’s been fun,” she said.

And while they’re looking forward to tying the knot in the future, they aren’t in any rush to wed.

source: people.com