Real Housewives of Atlanta’sPorsha Williamsrevealed her relationship with fiancéSimon Guobadiaon Monday — the estranged husband of costarFalynn Guobadia.
Early on inRHOAseason 13, Falynn — who is not a Housewife — invited Porsha and her friends over for a pool party at her house. As Porsha, 39, made her way over to the gathering, she explained that Simon owned a restaurant in the Atlanta area.
“His wife is just really nice and we exchanged numbers one day and she was like, ‘You should come over,'” she said.
Falynn Guobadia (L); Porsha Williams.Falynn Guobadia/Instagram; Paras Griffin/Getty

At the party itself, Falynn introduced the ladies to Simon and he and Porsha exchanged a fist bump. As they complimented his backyard, Simon pointed to a flower arrangement and commented, “Now that makes me want to get married all over again.”
“Yes, we may just have to renew our vows, ring upgrade, you know,” Falynn quipped, looking at Simon.
“Love it,” Porsha said as Simon teased, “I’m well-trained.”
Simon and Faylnn Guobadia.Faylnn Guobadia/Instagram

Many episodes later, Falynn and Simon’s home was the backdrop for a Halloween party that turned into an explosive argument requiring intervention from Simon.
When LaToya Ali showed up at the party, she gave Falynn a backhanded compliment that would later spark a fight.
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As LaToya left, she explained to the host that she was departing because “the energy is off.”
“The energy may be off because you came in my house and disrespected my husband, so maybe that has something to do with it,” Falynn replied. “You’re the only one who came in and disrespected my husband’s age.”
Simon Guobadia/Instagram; Falynn Guobadia/Instagram

“Exactly, walk away, that’s what poor people do,” she continued, watching LaToya get into her car.
“And what someone is not going to do is come into our empire that we built and be disrespectful to my husband,” Falynn said — prompting LaToya to get out of her car.
“Keep it in your mouth, bitch!” LaToya said.
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Falynn moved towards LaToya to confront her, but was held back and decided to run through the house and get to her through the garage.
Nearly a month after the season finale aired, Porsha and Simonwent public with their relationship.
“Our relationship began a month ago—yes we are crazy in love,” Porsha wrote alongside a selfie with Simon. “I know it’s fast but we are living life each day to its fullest. I choose happiness every morning and every night. Tuning out all negative energy and only focused on positive wishes. He makes me so happy and to me, that is what matters most.”
She also clarified where she and Falynn stand. “Falynn and I are not friends, and Simon’s divorce has been settled. Our relationship is a positive, loving step forward in everybody’s lives,” Porsha wrote.
In his own post, Simon confirmed that the pair are engaged and wroteon Instagram, “I asked her to marry me because we checked ALL of each other’s boxes, and then some.”
source: people.com